Bathing, dressing and toileting support

Personal Care Assistance

Personal care is intimate work. The request should describe exactly what help is needed, how the person prefers it done, and what they can still manage alone, so dignity stays at the centre.

An enquiry starts a conversation. Confirm identity, duties, schedule, fees and written terms before care begins.

A caregiver helping an older woman with daily routines at home.

Who this may help

  • Older adults who need help with washing, dressing or the toilet
  • People with continence needs that require calm, private support
  • Families arranging help a relative feels uneasy providing themselves

Possible support

  • Bathing, showering and grooming assistance
  • Dressing and help with continence products
  • Safe transfers to and from the toilet using an agreed method
  • Discreet observation and a private handover

Important boundaries

  • Consent and privacy preferences guide every task
  • Skin, wound or catheter care needing clinical judgement is a nurse’s task
  • A safe transfer method should be shown by a professional, not improvised
Build a useful request

Describe the person, not only the shift.

A clear brief helps everyone understand the work and its boundaries.

Describe an ordinary day

Start at wake-up and continue through bedtime. Note where hands-on help is needed, where supervision is enough and what the person still does independently. Include transfer method, walking aid, continence needs, food texture, communication style and sleep pattern.

State the practical requirements

Language, pets, stairs, smoking rules, transport, driving expectations, food practices and hospital appointments can affect whether an arrangement works.

Keep clinical tasks visible

If wound care, injections, tubes, catheters, medication administration or clinical monitoring are involved, state this at the start and ask the treating team which qualification is required.

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Common questions

Questions families ask

How do we keep it dignified?

Agree who provides intimate care, the person’s preferences and how privacy is protected. Involve them in the choice wherever possible.

Is continence care included?

Non-clinical continence support — help changing products and staying clean and comfortable — can be. Anything needing clinical assessment requires a qualified professional.

What about catheters or wounds?

Those are clinical tasks. A caregiver may observe and report, but care of the device or wound belongs to an appropriately qualified nurse.

Ready to describe the care needed?

Send the location and broad daily-support need. Add detailed or sensitive information only after the next step is clear.

Start a care enquiry
Updated 2026-08-06. General family care information, not medical advice.
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